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September, 2002
Hello... Thank you very much for continuing to include me, in the publication of your Newsletter... I enjoy reading it very much... it seems to work, as I rarely worship a woman until I meet her... But you have changed my mind... Dr Dagny... you are awesome... Ciao. Jim
"Tantric Oasis News" is an "ANOMALY"
The Dictionary defines "anomaly" as something that deviates from the general rule or the usual type, an irregularity or inconsistency
Namaste' Dear Devotees:
For those who don't know the meaning of "Namaste'" it is a greeting in which the Divine in me honors and acknowledges and mirrors the Divine in you.
Tantra Quote:
"Power is about what you can control" in your life. Can a person truly feel empowered if he needs to control people and situations? "Freedom is about what you can unleash." This is True Empowerment.
Two great tips to build and expand sexual energy:
1.Use your breath as an erotic tool: Focus on taking deep slow long breaths during lovemaking especially at high levels of arousal. Imagine that you are drawing the sexual charge upward from the genitals toward the belly and even into your heart.
2.Practice all types of Yoga. The benefits are exceptional like: Improves flexibility, balance and endurance. Improves mind/body connection. Increases strength and agility. Increases and expands kinesthetic awareness. Reduces stress and relaxes body. Increases mental focus and discipline. Improves posture, even self-confidence and self-love. The list goes on and on.
A couple of great Tantra Tips for deeper intimacy in Love Making:
1.Soul Gazing is making eye contact with your partner. Try to hold it for more then two minutes and mean it. Stay present and see what shows up. This definitely is an ancient secret to Mind Blowing Sex.
2.Synchronized Breathing is a way to match and pace the breath of your partner therefore connecting on deeper levels and feeling a sense of delicious oneness. You might just lie there "spooning" your mate as you harmoniously breath in and out or you might opposite breathe as to take in each other's breath in a giving receiving mode.
I cannot stress enough in my private practice the art of self-pleasuring {masturbation} in mastering the sexual energy. This practice can get you in touch with intimacy between you and your body, establishing the Tantra Philosophy that pleasure is good in itself. It also can teach you to increase your body's capacity to hold on going pleasure by riding waves and waves of mini orgasms. Self-pleasuring can benefit you not only sexually but emotionally, spiritually and even health wise. It is a blissful meditation in itself if done without it being goal oriented. It is most assuredly a practice of being intimate with you.
Dr. Ellis, a well-known psychotherapist and sexologist, who has written many books on sexology including the excellent "Sex Without Guilt", mentions the numerous advantages of masturbation, as he calls it...
Favorite Movies to Rent for a Romantic Evening:
"Kama Sutra", a Tale of Love, taking place in 15th century India. Lots of juicy tidbits as well as an Exquisite love story. "Chocolat" is another Magical and Delicious film, taking place in an old fashioned French town. Both may evoke tears of joy and sadness but surely will open your heart... Both are well worth owning to add to your collection.
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