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Dear Virgo, your sexual nature is both pure and simple, literally. Your sexual expression is typically (not always) tinged more with tenderness than with sensual eroticism or fierce passion ... unless properly inspired! With your natural attention to detail, you like the atmosphere to be "just right". Your definition will include, but not be limited to, order, cleanliness, candles, soft music, light scents in the air, and a nice bottle of champagne.
You prefer to discuss the general direction of the flow so there are no misunderstandings down the line. It's a way of freeing your mind, which is constantly engaged, so you can relax and enjoy the pleasures of another's company. There is a little joke I know of that says, a woman knows within 5 minutes of meeting a man, whether or not she plans to have sex with him. (I venture to say a Virgo man would plan the same way.) You are very instinctive in that way. Because you notice more per square inch than any other sign in the Zodiac, you can look at a person and have a 5 minute conversation that yields you enough facts to make an initial judgment - and most often, be correct! (That's a gift!)
Once the mood is set and the evening is in motion, one of your favorite things to do is bathe together and then crawl into your immaculately made bed. NOTE to non-Virgos: Most Virgo's prefer to be on their own turf so they feel more in control - LET THEM - it will allow them to also be more relaxed and open and receptive. You almost always prefer quality to quantity, taking it slow and exploring eachother first. One of your erogenous zones is the midsection, from the lower chest to the thighs. Any attention given there will elicit a positive response.
That was basically for the "nice" Virgo, now for the "naughty" one! There are many things you enjoy, nothing more than being in control. A few of the magic buttons for you would be mutual masturbation, mild domination-submission and voyeurism.
Your natural opposite is Pisces, so there should be a little "dream-like" quality to your nature, even if you keep it secret. However, the lesson of Pisces is, "Let go and let God" and it's one that Virgo struggles with - ALLOWING a natural flow to things. These aspects of sexual expression would encourage you to "let go" and just enjoy the moment. Behind closed doors, with a partner you trust, may be the ONLY time you relax and let go, so enjoy it!!
MORE ON KELLY - Based on the East coast, she has been teaching people how to access, understand and direct their energies for over 10 years. Understanding the energies that you have direct access to enables you to create the life you were born to live. For any questions, e-mail Kelly: Kelly@Cosmic-Switchboard.com. For more in-depth information on the current energies and cycles, go to: www.cosmic-switchboard.com
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